Some ways NOT to make yourself available

1. Tell everybody that you are available.

2. Constantly make comments about your single status.

3. Complain because no one is paying any attention to you.

4. Be overly friendly to eligible men.

5. Associate with eligible men while avoiding or ignoring other people.

6. Chase men.

7. Make a practice of inviting eligible men to dinner or parties just to check them out.

8. Accept undue or inappropriate attentions from a man.

9. Talk too much.

10. Be pushy or insistent.

11. Be or act desperate.

12. Be too quick to jump into a relationship.

13. Lower your standards or otherwise accept whatever you can get.

14. Look at every eligible man as a potential husband (or date).